Category: Psychology

By Posted on Posted in commentary, Psychology Tagged with , ,

We all have that friend or family member, that no matter how things are going, they’re always complaining. It may be subtle and not even intentional, but they’ve fallen into a rut. You see them and ask, “Hey, how’s it going?” Then the minute the words have left your mouth; you instantly regret them.

“I can never catch a break. My luck will never change…”
“It’s my lot in life…”

No matter the hour, the day, or time of year, it’s always the same. They complain about the traffic, the kids, their job, their neighbors, the weather, their life in general. After hearing the same old, same old, maybe you find that you don’t visit or call as often. It’s become monotonous…

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By Posted on Posted in commentary, Food for Thought, General Interest, Psychology Tagged with , , , , ,

Where is your cell phone right now? If you’re working, creating, or relaxing, it shouldn’t be nearby unless you actually need it. I’m writing my May 2nd blog, so my phone is in the family room—out of sight, out of mind, and no interruptions.

Your cell phone is a distraction. Period. It robs you of your focus. How often do you think about it, even if it’s not currently ringing or pinging for your attention? Maybe I should check it right now, right? Do you pick it up to see if anyone has texted you? Ah, now it has your full attention. So, you turn it over and put it down. Damn, you’ve lost your train of thought. The sad thing is, how many times during the day does this occur? Add all those up, and you’ll soon discover how much time you’ve lost. You’re trying to multitask, and guess what? It doesn’t work.

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By Posted on Posted in Biology, General Interest, Medical, Psychology, Science Tagged with , , , ,

If you listen to the above video, then begin to focus on each line of text for several seconds, you can easily convince yourself that they are indeed saying what’s printed on the screen. It appears that our ears, can be easily influenced. But, what about our eyes…

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By Posted on Posted in commentary, General Interest, Philosophy, Psychology Tagged with , , , ,

Many people are unwilling to change because it scares them, and I can understand that. However, I see change as a sign of growth; a willingness to learn and keeping an open mind to new ideas and concepts. Frankly, I find it sad when I see people stagnate; to stubborn to see things in a new light. We weren’t meant to be unmoving rocks, but rather like rivers who ebb and flow over and around them, altering our direction…

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